This is my first post, and this is something I’ve felt like doing this for a while now. I guess, I’m finally ripping the band-aid off.

Life is never what you expect it to be, but it’s difficult when you’ve made choices that you deeply regret and now you must deal with the consequences (good & bad).

Falling in love with someone who is emotionally unavailable will inevitably fail. No matter how much effort you put into it, no matter how many tears you cry, they are unable and unwilling to understand how you’re feeling. Even if you are coming from a place of love and are trying to explain how they are hurting you and that you cannot be treated like this, they will make you feel bad for bringing this up, and will eventually turn the conversation to an attack against you.

Suddenly you have done something wrong, and they are asking for an apology for how you reacted to them hurting you. There will be absolutely no understanding of your feelings, or why you chose to talk about them at this time instead of just leaving. They will make you feel bad about yourself EVERY SINGLE TIME.